People says that a best friend is whom talking bad in front your face instead of telling you the nice flowery words. In some point, I agreed.
But, do you agree that whom hurt us the most is the closest one?
Especially when they said something rude to us, just because they don’t agree with our thought or what we do. Without any intention, they just said it frankly… and sometimes… being rude.
I don’t say that friendship is meaningless, but in some point, we have to manage our words depend on the situation. When we feel that we know our
best friend so well, we tend to say whatever we want without thinking if our statement will hurt them.
But, people change. And somehow, they don’t / refuse to realize our changes, especially of our thought, our expectation, our life, etc. They still think that we are same as before. And we don’t have enough time to explain every single thought to them anyway.
People tends to speculate if they don’t know what’s going on in our life. When they think they know, they judge. When finally they know, they just hate. And then being rude. Or try to change us to what they want us to be.
Maybe I reached my point of limit where I am tired to accept what they said to me. In the end, I let them think what they wants. I have no energy to explain who I am to people who keep committed to misunderstanding me.
Be kind anyway...